Show some love on Mother’s Day

values in others that comes naturally to some.

Society can recognise and celebrate all those who play a maternal role in one’s life. Their impact is phenomenal and immeasurable.

Acts of kindness

On Mother’s Day, everyone can choose to participate. Perhaps you’ve been there for your mother, aunt or someone whose impact in your life was that of a mother. Pick up the phone and make that call, or better still visit if you can.

If there’s been tension, this is a good time to bury the hatchet, turn a new leaf and mend those relationships. You can visit an old people’s home to honour the mothers and grandmothers there whom society might have forgotten.

Spend time, cheer them up, do something — maybe cook for them, offer some appropriate recreation or support in any way you can, even if it’s just by your presence.

If you’re a husband, consider these ways to honour your wife in addition to gifts you may have in mind:

Improved communication: Think of the things she has complained about in your relationship. Commit to being better.

Listen actively and with understanding and express your feelings openly too, to improve your bond.

Encourage children (though usually they hardly need cranking), to honour their mother and be kind to her.

Shared Responsibilities: If you haven’t been actively supporting your wife, now is a good time to change.

Share household responsibilities and show appreciation for her efforts. Also share the important vision and dreams you have as individuals. You are not alone in that marriage.

Too many couples vanoita “mazvake-mazvake” for example in the area of finances.

I suggest kuita zvinhu zvenyu together as a couple because a house divided against itself cannot stand.

Mothers celebrating themselves and one another

And to all my sisters, mothers from all walks of life, it’s your day: don’t wait to be spoiled!

This day is about celebrating you, what God invested in you. You can make the day special for those around you too, or encourage a fellow mother. And whether your own mother is alive or not, there’s much to cherish and do in her honour.

Here are some ideas to honour mothers: Cook a special meal: Prepare a beautiful meal for your family as they celebrate you with you. Food shared with love nourishes not only the body but also the soul and it sets a beautiful atmosphere for bonding.

Acts of kindness: Extend your love beyond your family, share a meal with friends or neighbours if you feel the need to do so.

Perform acts of kindness for those who don’t have a mother figure in their lives. You might know a lonely elderly woman who lives alone, spare a thought or reach out if you can.

A biblical perspective Proverbs: 31 describes the virtuous woman, a wife and mother who embodies strength, wisdom, and compassion.

Her actions inspire us to foster love within our homes. Husbands can learn from her example and honour their wives by appreciating their tireless efforts. Just think of all the things she stands for, the role she plays day in, day out, it can be cumbersome. It is therefore befitting to let her know she is truly appreciated.

Ultimately, Mother’s Day is a reminder to cherish the women who have shaped us.

Let’s celebrate all mothers — biological and otherwise — for their unwavering love, sacrifice, and nurturing spirit. As we honour them, we are aware no one is perfect, so let’s also reflect on the transformative power of love and kindness we can extend towards them.

So, till next edition, Happy Mother’s Day to every remarkable woman out there! Receive your flowers.

Happy Mother’s Day too, to everyone born of a mother and thank God for them, alive or not. Their love, and sacrifice can never be forgotten, you are their legacy.

Let’s keep the conversation going. I do know, a day like this can be difficult for some whose mothers are no longer with us. I can relate, having lost my own mother very painfully in 2013.

So you are welcome to express your thoughts, experiences and great memories of departed mothers, your own motherhood experience or if you are just needing ways to go through the day.

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