Autistic quarantine

I am an adult on the autism spectrum. I went to school, and I am in good physical condition for my age. I can’t function in the workplace because I have social difficulties. I have been effectively quarantined for the last 30 years.

The stimulation of movies, television and radio are uncomfortable. I don’t like pets, places with too many people or traveling. I don’t enjoy restaurants or participating in holidays, and I avoid food shopping, if possible.

In this time of quarantine, I feel I have useful information about spending quiet time alone. A nonautistic friend has told me she is “going crazy with nothing to do.” I feel that I have too much to do, with a to-do list that exceeds my life expectancy.

What I do is study. I took a free online course in psychology with a charismatic lecturer at the University of Toronto. My friend is learning to program in Java. And I want to learn to play the guitar.

I learn skills to save money. I rewire lamps, fix faucets and patch plaster. I update my computer, change car bulbs, put on vacuum belts. I sew, cook and repot plants. For exercise, I climb the city stairs, bike on the trails and I’m learning yoga online.

Most important, I create meaning in my life that does not depend on other people. I am writing a book on autism, and I want to write a romance. I study art, and I want to do sculpture. When I create things, I don’t feel the need to be entertained.

I stay in touch with family and friends using technology. I serve my community by clearing brush, helping my neighbors and updating websites. We can entertain ourselves, learn and be involved, all while in isolation. Be safe, everyone.

PHIL GARROW

Oakland