Baby loss team will support men
IT is one of life’s great tragedies and the wounds of the loss sometimes never heal. That’s why the city’s newest football team is on a mission to tackle mental health issues and support men whose lives have been turned upside down by the death of a baby.
Sands United FC will provide a safe space for like- minded people to come together in their shared love of the game.
Most importantly, there will also be plenty of room to talk about the “taboo” that affects around one in every 224 pregnancies in the UK.
The team have been founded by Thornliebank Primary pupil support teacher Andy Westcott who, while having not suffered from baby loss himself, knows the impact it can have on men across Glasgow.
Andy, 42, said: “It’s such a taboo subject and that’s part of the thing, it’s to break the silence.
“It’s awkward on my part as well as I haven’t had that experience in my life personally but I do know a few and it is so important to have a place where we can tackle men’s mental health.
“It’s not the kind of team anyone wants to join as it is probably the most tragic circumstances you can think of. The happiness of having a kid and then that being taken away from you.”
Andy, who previously coached the Glasgow University FC club, will also manage Sands United initially, but hopes to eventually step back and let the members run it themselves.
And while he acknowledges the challenges of establishing the side in the current circumstances – with recreational sport for over18s still banned under current lockdown rules – he remains hopeful the team will be able to come together before the end of the year.
Andy added: “My hope for Sands United FC Glasgow would be to help break the silence here and encourage men to get together and enjoy playing football together even if it starts as a regular game of 5- a- side or walking football.
“I hope that all cultures, ages, and abilities could be represented at the sessions helping to break down further barriers in our communities.”
Liz Thornton, Sands United relationships manager, said: “It’s fantastic that Andy is setting up this new football team in Glasgow to help men in the area who have been through the pain of losing their baby.
“Sands United FC is a unique way for anyone affected by pregnancy loss or the death of a baby to come together through a shared love of sport and find a support network where they can feel at ease talking about their grief when they’re ready.
“The players also commemorate their babies’ all too brief lives by proudly displaying their names on their home and away shirts.
“And each team member helps make a difference by raising vital funds to help Sands achieve its vision of a world where fewer babies die and when a baby does die, anyone affected receives the best possible care and support for as long as it’s needed.”
To get involved or to find out more, email sufcglasgow@ gmail. com.
It’s such a taboo subject and it’s not the team anyone wants to join...