A dirty dozen tips to put sizzle in your sex life for 2018!

FEEL the oomph has left your bedroom? Sex and relationship expert Dr Pam Spurr will help this year go with a bang.

Many people find it hard to get enthusiastic about making New Year changes in areas like their diet, bad habits, exercise, etc.

But how about a resolution to fire up some friskiness in your sex life.

More appealing, right? Especially with so many couples now complaining of bedroom boredom.

A recent University of Southampton study revealed women get fed up more quickly with sex than men do. Frequently, it’s as early as the one-year mark when a yawn replaces a yes, please!

Women are also four times more likely to stop caring about sex. And that might go hand in hand with it being about as boring as the household chores.

Well, that stops here. Now’s the time to resolve to ramp up the Va Va Voom in the bedroom.

Try these ‘dirty dozen’ (DD) tips to get your sizzle back: together? Absent-mindedly (on purpose) caress a hand, leg, etc. That will get the juices flowing. Doing your tried and tested A-to-b style sex snuffs out the spark. You might fancy giving a new position or technique a go – and your partner might too. Try taking turns choosing something from a sex guide. Close your eyes and point to a random page. Dare yourselves to do what’s on that page. Remember to keep teasing each other – guaranteed to ramp up desire. lovely position for sensual lovemaking where you can kiss and cuddle. Take foreplay out of the bedroom and agree to meet somewhere you’ve never been – a pub, restaurant or cafe. Pretend to be strangers who chat each other up. Be super saucy with your chat-up lines. Give each other playful names like Phil and Claire Dunphy do in TV sitcom Modern Family.

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