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SPEECH THAT SHAMED ME INTO ACTION
Becoming a Cabinet minister in 2007 changed my life – because it forced me to come to terms with my stammer.
Once I was speaking regularly on TV or in Parliament, my occasional ‘blocks’ – pauses when I couldn’t get my words out – became a serious issue, so much so that the Conservative MPS opposite began to fill the painful moments of silence with loud jeers.
I didn’t believe it at first when
I was told I had an ‘interiorised stammer’, much like Colin Firth’s
George VI in The
King’s Speech [above].
And when my excellent and caring speech therapist told me things wouldn’t improve until I went public with it, I just laughed.
No way. Cabinet ministers can’t admit to a weakness. Politicians don’t do vulnerable.
It all came to a head when I attended the launch of a video for teachers at the Michael Palin Centre for Stammering. Michael and I were deeply moved, watching this film as children spoke openly and bravely about their stammers. But afterwards, one of the dads confronted me.
‘You’ve got a stammer, and you don’t say or do anything about it. My son is so brave and I think you’re a coward.’ I winced inside, made my excuses and left. Back at my desk, I burst into tears – also not normal Cabinet minister behaviour. I wrote a personal letter to every child in the video to thank them, telling them that I had a stammer too and they were a great inspiration to me.
It was the turning point for me. I know now how much my stammer is part of who I am, that dealing
with it has given me the confidence to do many difficult and fabulous things since.